Summer style: The Wedding Guest

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I love attending weddings in the summer. From the venue to decor, drinks to flowers, the intricacy of a wedding is something that is so unique to the couple and what makes attending so special.

The only problem I always find myself coming across is what to wear. Finding a dress that's not too expensive but suitable for the occasion seems to take numerous shopping trips, plenty of internet scouring and Instagram stalking.

I can never seem to find the right dress and always re-wear my dresses as I don't have much money to buy a new outfit for every occasion. However, after a few quick internet searches, I have found some absolute beauties that would be perfect for any wedding guest to wear this summer.

1. ASOS

This ASOS dress is absolutely stunning. The pastel palette is elegant and floral print is perfect for this year's summer trend. Although it's a mid-length pleated dress that some people might class as unflattering or old-fashioned, the delicate straps and neckline, along with the open back completely change the look of this dress. Partner with some barely-there heels to create a classy look.

2. Reiss

A plain dress doesn't have to be boring, shown by Reiss through lace and floral prints. The short sleeves are perfect for any wedding, especially if you're worried about the weather, and the beautiful cut-out detail on the back instantly changes the shape of the dress when put on. It's a beautiful design and perfect for any summer event, especially in this gorgeous pastel pink colour.

3. Zara

This Zara dress is an absolute steal and put together nicely, can look a lot more expensive than it actually is. The simple, bodycon style is perfect for those who want to flaunt their accessories, shoes or bag and the frill detail on the bardot sleeve adds just a little extra for those who want to cover their chest. This dress comes in lots of colours but the red is definitely the most eye-catching for an event.

4. Topshop

I adore the subtle print of this one-shouldered Topshop dress. The jacquard detailing and pastel tone combine with a structured, cocktail shape to create a dress that can be worn again and again. The dress is a little shorter than most but definitely not unsuitable for a family wedding. Simple accessories will bring this outfit together nicely for an expensive looking high-street alternative.

5. Oh My Love London

Statement sleeves are everywhere at the moment and most probably one of my favourite 2017 trends. This bardot, bodycon number from Oh My Love London is completely focusing on the statement sleeves, leaving the rest of the dress simple yet pretty in a light grey shade. Add some show-stopping earrings or bold heels for that extra touch.

6. French Connection

Lace is everything and one things for sure, it will never go out of fashion. Although this French Connection number comes with a more high-end price tag, the luxury of the material and feel will mean that you'll keep coming back to this dress. White is sometimes seen as inappropriate for a wedding but put together with the right accessories, the silver detailing and lace intricacy of this dress will be the main focus.

The power of using and understanding social media

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As you know, I recently wrote a post on why I use social media and it got me thinking. Social media is something that we simply cannot escape from, from updating Snapchat stories to re-tweeting celebrities, Instagram stalking to enhancing our profiles on LinkedIn, it's become an everyday activity.

A recent survey by UM's Wave indicated that 85% of social media users actively spend time managing their profiles online and compared to 2010, people are 40% less likely to see social networks as a place for fun and entertainment and are 30% more likely to see them as platforms on which to promote themselves.

I may not be the most social media savvy, but being a millennial and growing up with the use of social media platforms and emerging technology definitely has its positives. Here are my three top tips on how to utilise social media:

Use your own voice

When writing online, don't pretend to be someone you're not. Whether it's writing simple status updates to long blog posts or instant messaging, make sure it's written in a way that promotes your best self. Use similar language to what you'd use in everyday life while talking to family or friends and be genuine in how you come across. You don't want to find yourself meeting someone for the first time and realise that your online persona is completely different to what you're actually like.

Keep on top of it

When running online accounts to use professionally, make sure you keep on top of it. For example, try to tweet at least 4 times a day to show that you're involving yourself in discussion and current affairs. Re-tweeting people in the same industry or users who you look up to will help your activity as well as engaging in conversation, through instant messaging or commenting on someone's tweet, image or announcement. You'll be amazed how many people notice engagement on your feed, just by a simple re-tweet or comment.

Remember all social media platforms

When starting up social media accounts, most people will focus on Twitter, Instagram and a Facebook page. They're easy to use, have a large following and you can find relatable posts with just a one-word search. However, I've found that even using LinkedIn as another source has provided me with professional engagement and helped me gain contacts in the industry. Potential employers can access your account and posting solely professional content can increase your employability. Using social media platforms that are relevant to your business or brand is so important - for example, using Pinterest if you're an interior enthusiast, SoundCloud if you're a musician or The Dots if you want to exhibit projects you've been a part of.

I spoke to Rhiannon Birch who co-founded Cheshire Cat Marketing with Darren Finder. Her top tips for social media can be adapted to suit any business or personal account:

"While sending out the occasional routine tweet is ok, try to aim for quality over quantity. Interact with users or perhaps post on particular trends, even if they're outside of your usual business subjects... don't be afraid to be spontaneous."

"Don't forget to interact with people"

"Prioritising saves time and energy and allows you or your team to get on with answering questions. Don't forget to interact with people on your pages as well though, customers appreciate a personal interaction and it increases loyalty."

"Scour the web for mentions of your organisations name (which also works with your name as a professional or blogger) and whichever social media channels you find yourself mentioned on, create a page! By creating your page and making yourself known though great organic content and advertising, the customers will find you and they will appreciate you creating a space for them."

Using hashtags is another great way to interact. Here's a tweet using professional interaction that got me a lot of response! Are these social media tips helpful for you?

I'm currently writing a blog post all about social media📱 What are your top social media tips?✨#journorequest @UKBloggers1

— Amie Rhone (@amie_journalist) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @UKBloggers1 take a break from it every once in a while! 💕💕

— Niffler (@allaimeewrites) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @UKBloggers1 'Just do you' Don't upload something because you think others want you too. Stay true to yourself.

— Amanda Bootes (@AmandaBootes) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @UKBloggers1 It's important to create conversations, not just plugging your own brand in every post. Promote others.

— Krissy Lloyd (@krissy_lloyd) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @UKBloggers1 Never be negative!

— Lucy Smith (@Lucyannasmith) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @UKBloggers1 don't put anything on social media that you wouldn't want your grandmother to see!

— Vic Dadson (@VicClicky) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @UKBloggers1 keep it social! Focus on making connections not sales and the results will follow.

— Rebecca Coupe (@rebeccacoupe) March 22, 2017

@amie_journalist @PRJournoRequest @UKBloggers1 ask questions to start a conversation.

— Jonathan Pollinger (@intranetfuture) March 23, 2017

10 things that made me happy in March

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1. Managing my work

This month, I've started feeling better about my final year workload. My dissertation is finally coming together, essay planning is underway and I'm looking forward to enjoying the last few months of uni. I've felt so stressed since Christmas, thinking that I'd never be able to complete my dissertation or have control of my work but I can see it starting to take shape.

2. Meeting new people

I love meeting new people and exploring new opportunities and this month has been full of them! I'm in contact with so many more bloggers, industry professionals and have enjoyed meeting new people and getting to know them.

3. It's finally Spring!

My favourite season is in full swing; longer days, brighter evenings, warmer weather and cooler drinks. The dull winter is long gone and it's looking more like Spring. People just seem so much happier when the sun's out and having the sun shining definitely helps when I'm trying to complete assignments.

4. I paid off my holiday

It's such a relief when you pay off a holiday and I've finally got round to doing it. This year's holiday is a pretty expensive one so I couldn't wait to pay it off, now I just want to go! I can use the extra money to buy plenty of holiday clothes now.

5. September can't come soon enough

I know it's only March and we've still got the summer to enjoy but I just can't wait to start teaching in September. This month, my timetable was sent out, along with a portfolio of how the year will run and how I'll be assessed and it's really made it all seem so much more exciting. Bring it on.

6. Catching up with friends

I really don't see my friends enough. When it comes to organised meals, nights out and shopping trips, it always seems as though dates don't work out or things get re-scheduled. This month, I caught up with some of my lovely friends and I can't wait to be able to see them a lot more after uni.

7. Graduation

Last week, I finally received my graduation date. Although it's not for another 8 months, I'm already looking forward to the day. Having graduation in mind has given me so much motivation to complete my work to the best of my ability and have a goal set in my mind.

8. Spoiling my Mum

I love buying gifts for my Mum and she definitely deserves a lot more than I can afford but I enjoyed spoiling her this Mother's Day. I also fought hard to find the perfect present for my Nan's birthday but finally settled on some summer essentials from her favourite shop.

9. My sister came home

My sister lives away at university and although I speak to her every day, I don't see her as much as I'd like. She came home for Mother's Day weekend to celebrate our Nan's birthday and see the family, which was lovely.

10. Work experience

I completed a weeks work experience at Gloucestershire Live and the Gloucestershire Echo at the start of March, which I really enjoyed. I spent the week talking to new people, interviewing shop owners, writing pieces for online and newspapers and having lot of laughs in the office. It was such a good week, made even better by having 5 published pieces in the paper.

Interior Inspiration

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Although I don't have my own house yet, I am obsessed with interiors. Whether it's wandering round a homeware store looking for inspiration or following the most gorgeous Instagram accounts, I love eyeing up interior trends, textures and searching for new ideas. From chesterfield inspired furniture to chunky blankets, silver statements to soft pastels, I can't stop saving and scrapbooking ideas of how my house will look in the future.
Here's some of the accounts I follow and interior trends I love...

Da var det snart helg igjen, dere 🙋 Herlighet, dagene går så fort! Nyt torsdagskvelden, fininger ❤❤

A post shared by Sandra 💎 (@homebysandraa) on Feb 9, 2017 at 11:56am PST

We're mad for marble 💗 ! Prices from €2.50/$3 #PrimarkHome #Primark #Homeware

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What an entrance 😍😍😍😍 #furniture #furnituredesign #furnitureporn #furnitureshopping #interior #instagood #instacool #picoftheday #interiordesign #design #interiordesigner #shabbychicfurniture #interiors #shabbystore #follow #shabbychic #love #shabbychicstyle #shabbychicdecor #decor #renovate #renovation #house #homestyle #home #homeinspo #homeinspiration #accessories #luxury #luxurylifestlye www.shabbystore.co.uk

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From florals to frills, cosy cushions are taking centre stage in #VHCheltenham! #cosy #interiors #floral #snug #home

A post shared by Vinegar Hill (@vinegarhill) on Jan 28, 2016 at 10:43am PST

Hope you’re all having a good day! I’m adding pops of colour to my living room in an attempt to cure the January blues & embrace upcoming spring. Adding pastels in the form of this super soft mohair throw, Mongolian cushion & floral prints give a delicate, feminine look. Floral Cushions 🔎 s2639484 Faux Mongolian Fur Cushion 🔎 s2576678 Embroidered Edge Cushion 🔎 s2641771

A post shared by Matalan (@shopmatalan) on Jan 24, 2017 at 5:18am PST

Dreaming of this white closet design😍 Who else would love a walk-in like this?? Credit: @ma_house #brightlightinterior . . . . #interiordesign #interiordecor #interior #interiorinspiration #inspiration #decor #home #homedecor #homedesign #design #homeinterior #homesweethome #homestyle #designinspiration #house #interiordecorating #interiorinspo #instadecor #diy #styling #interiør #interiorideas #instadesign #dreamhome #closet #walkincloset #dreamcloset #allwhiteeverything #closetgoals

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Such a perfect weather today☀️❄️😍 Have a wonderful saturday! . . .

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Wrap up and stay outside for longer. Get your patio in shape for those cosy autumn evenings.

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God kveld✨ Sweet Dreams! ✨ #tb #hallway

A post shared by Maren Andersen (@bma.interior) on Mar 12, 2017 at 2:35pm PDT

More fabulous faux florals in-store – thanks for sharing @hannacornish #interior #interiordesign #interiorstyle #interiorlovers #interiorstyling #homestyle home #interiorinspo #lbloggers #decor #stylingtheseasons #spring #floral

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Gift Guide: Mother's Day

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Mother's Day is just around the corner! With so many shops offering great Mother's Day deals and new products, there's no reason to leave your gift buying to the last minute. From cards to handbags, perfume to mugs, there's no excuse for showing your Mum how much she means to you with a small gift. 

Here's my Mother's Day gift guide suitable for any budget:

The Bag

If you're looking to spend more on your Mum this year, this Radley Multiway Bag from House of Fraser is the perfect buy. A beautiful blue handbag will see your Mum perfectly dressed for Spring and with an additional 20% off at the moment, what's not to love? 

Radley Bag - £135.20

The Personalised Gift

A personalised gift will always add that extra special touch. This keyring from The Laser Boutique is perfect for Mum's with younger children, with names embossed onto delicate hearts. It also comes in a presentation box, essential for those who hate the hassle!

Keyring - £9.99

The Cute Buy

When buying presents, I always end up buying for myself or buying a gift because I love it. This umbrella from ASOS is so pretty and definitely one I would be borrowing off my Mum! The classic duck head handle and beautiful shade of pink stand out and add a colour pop to any outfit.

Duckhead Pastel Pink Umbrella - £22

The Essential

It wouldn't be a gift guide without a stereotypical gift and this time, this mug has won me over. It's very minimal and delicate and in typical Not On The High Street style, has it's message written in a pretty, ditsy font. Perfect if your Mum loves her tea or coffee.

Mug from Owl & Otter - £13.50

The Luxury Item

This gorgeous fragrance is the perfect Mother's Day buy. A gentle, sweet scent enclosed in a bold, powerful bottle with a message that would put a smile on your Mum's face. Net-A-Porter have a large range of fragrances by the renowned perfumer Azzi Glasser but this is the perfect pick.

Bella Freud Parfum - £95

The Obvious

What would Mother's Day be without a candle? Yes it's an obvious choice but this beauty from The White Company couldn't be ignored. It's fresh, light and sweet aroma oozes Spring scents and is the perfect candle to pick up as the weather gets warmer.

Spring Candle - £20

The Unusual

Prosecco and strawberries are the perfect Mother's Day treat and these offer something a bit different, they're made of chocolate! What could be better? Choc On Choc are my favourite chocolate company and their take on everyday items and foods make for a brilliant, unique gift.

Chocolate Prosecco and Strawberries - £18

The Funny Gift

Enid Blyton's books will always be the best reminder from your childhood and this Mother's Day book is a funny alternative for any Mum. Waterstones currently have it on offer so grab it quick if your Mum loves a fun read.

Five Forget Mother's Day - £5.99

The 'I still don't know what to buy' Gift

It's always difficult choosing a gift and if you're still unsure on the perfect buy, let your Mum choose herself. Tesco currently have 20% off selected gift cards including ASK Italian, Pizza Express, Gap and Monsoon. Treat your Mum to a meal out or their choice of summer pieces.

Various Gift Cards - 20% off

Social media: Why I use it and what it means to me

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Contacts

One of the first tips I was told as a student journalist is to make sure my social media is up to scratch; constantly updated, chat with industry professionals online, remove old or inappropriate posts and follow the people that you aspire to be like or who has your dream job. This is probably the best advice I've been told. Since posting professional content, I've seen an increase in activity, with followers from industry professionals and a bigger following on my blog. Building contacts is good in any profession and you never know what you'll get from following someone on Twitter or commenting on someone's Instagram post.

News

Social media has changed the way in which traditional news platforms report news. Most people now see stories first on Facebook, especially if they follow any news outlets on there, but even through shares, likes and comments. Newspapers are now providing digital content for the majority of their stories; political, entertainment, business or just general news, helping more people than ever become interested in news. Over 80% of people now source their news online and social media has been the biggest influence on that number, especially in generating more people, who wouldn't have before, to read news.

Family

Keeping in contact with my family is so important to me, especially as my family live all over the UK and since my Uncle moved over to Madrid. Social media completely changed the way I chat to my family and friends, with it being so easy to keep in touch, see what people are up to and message them. From double-tapping pictures and videos on Instagram to liking status's on Facebook and messaging each other, I feel closer than ever to my family who I may not see as often as I'd like... simply down to the introduction of social media!

Trends

Similarly to news outlets, trending stories have completely changed the way that news is now provided. Whether it's a trending hashtag on Twitter to a story on Facebook, trends are purely there because so many people are talking about a certain topic. It now takes just seconds to open an app and see what's going on; a killer speech at the Grammys, important election results, the latest sports scores or even a pregnancy reveal!

Job Opportunities

Social media isn't just about checking in with your friends and having a laugh. As I've made my way through university, I've realised how important social media accounts are in reflecting your brand, personality and enthusiasm when it comes to future careers. Creating a professional Facebook and Twitter account helped my following and got me in touch with people I wouldn't have dreamed about speaking to before and creating a LinkedIn account is certainly the best thing I could have done while looking for job opportunities. Don't hold back when it comes to getting your name out there and showing your skills off!


Check out this post for tips on how to transform your social media:

International Women's Day

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International Women's Day celebrates the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women and is there to accelerate gender equality. Since the day was first celebrated in the early 1900's, it's given women all over the world a chance to speak out and have their voices heard.

I'm marking the day by sharing my favourite quotes from some of my favourite women:

"Your self-worth is determined by you. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are." - Beyonce

"Let's be very clear: Strong men - men who are truly role models - don't need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful. People who are truly strong lift each other up. People who are truly powerful bring others together." - Michelle Obama

"I'm doing to do what I want to do. I'm going to be who I really am. I'm going to figure out what that is." - Emma Watson

"There's something so special about a woman who dominates in a man's world. It takes a certain grace, strength, intelligence, fearlessness, and the nerve to never take no for an answer." - Rihanna

"If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman." - Margaret Thatcher

"I speak not for myself but  for those without a voice... those who have fought for their rights... their right to live in peace, their right to be treated with dignity, their right to equality of opportunity, their right to be educated." - Malala Yousafzai

Happy #internationalwomensday to all of you amazing ladies! 🙌🏼💟 #luciedelafalaise #StormLoves pic.twitter.com/6ce0cAPtJT

— StormModelManagement (@StormModels) March 8, 2017